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  1. Any time that I leave a room, I look around to see if there’s anything lying around that doesn’t belong there. I’ll carry it out with me and put it in its proper place—this takes very little time rather than an
    announcement “We have to clean up this room”. It also is a good habit to instill in children. I still don’t have a picture-perfect home but we are on the right track.—Anne

  2. My senior mom finds it overwhelming so I suggested getting a box and everyday putting one thing in it….no matter how small….at the end of a year you’ve gotten rid of 365 things effortlessly! Better yet put a box in every room that needs decluttering.

  3. Thank you for this wonderfully written article and great ideas. I love your ideas for decluttering in small, brief increments, and as one goes.

    I really needed to hear this!

    I went through several years of passionate decluttering, and got rid of a lot of paper and other items. I used the “Organizing From the Inside Out” method, which recommended tackling one drawer, etc., at a time, but in the last few years, even that has felt like too much. I’d sit next to my bed for hours, with one small stack of paper at a time to sort and reduce, laying out the categories of paper on my freshly made bed, next to index cards labeled “TO DO” or “FILE,” “TOSS,” “TO READ,” “ONE-SIDED RE-USE,” etc.

    But where I live now, I keep a high-up window in my bedroom open to keep the room cool for sleeping, but it isn’t easy to open and close the window to have it warmer in there for paper clutterbusting in the evenings. Result? Too much paper piling up on my desk, and file drawers too full.

    I need to clear a card table to do my paper sorting on, and get going again.

    Recently I started getting small amounts of paperwork done in the evenings, but that’s the slow approach, one document at a time, versus sorting first, to get rid of lots of paper at once.

    The upside is that by at least getting some papers dealt with, it has inspired me to work in smaller, shorter batches.
    I’m so glad to see you and some other organizers recently, advocating for brief decluttering.

    I could never relate to the Marie Kondo, declutter an entire category of items all in one day method. Too overwhelming and intimidating for me. If I tried that, I would end up with 90% of my papers and books still on my bed at 10 pm, and not be able to get into bed! And I’d be self-soothing with a lot of ice cream from the trauma of trying to declutter all my paper in one day. 🙂

    I’m writing down your tips in my “life tips and great quotes” notebook, and am looking forward to implementing some of them this evening.

    One of my go-to favorite decluttering strategies I’m sure you’re familiar with I learned from a book by actress Mary Lou Henning, to have a “staging area” in each room near the door, with a container or space in which to place items to carry to another room where they belong, on one’s way out out of that room. Her rule was to “never leave a room empty-handed.” Its a great way to automatically keep a home picked up, continually moving items back to the room in which they belong, every time one leaves a room.

    Thanks again for your cheerful list of doable tips. I feel energized to declutter just reading them.

  4. I love your blogs and the helpful tips. Taking small projects (one drawer at a time) can work, but once you close the drawer, no one but you knows the difference. The one thing that helped me the most with decluttering when I was a working mom with three kids was to pass out clothes baskets to each of them (and one for me) and have them walk through the main areas of our house, starting with the family room, dining room, kitchen, and back hallway and have them put everything of theirs that was out of place into their baskets. They could carry the baskets to their rooms and put the stuff away at whatever deadline you agreed to, but at least it was no longer cluttering our shared living space. Creating an uncluttered space at least once a week helped all of us enjoy our home in a more relaxed way. At least it worked for me!

  5. One tip that has really helped me over many years is: never leave a room empty-handed. There is almost always something that you can take with you to put back, put away or put in the charity donation pile/recycling bin. It takes virtually no time and really stops clutter piling up.

  6. I never leave a room empty handed. That’s on autopilot at this stage of my life.
    But my real motivation trick is to fool myself by saying just clear 1 thing everyday. When I’m energetic it could be 1 drawer and my lazy days it’s just putting 1 piece of rubbish/junk/ toy /letter in the bin. No matter how tired or stressed I am I can manage 1 thing.

    My 1 stressor is waking up to a kitchen table full of dishes & food & papers & whatever the previous day had going on. My new years resolution was not to go to bed till the kitchen table is cleared. I love it. Throughout the day I’m very conscious of what can be cleared from the table and not to dump anything on it.

  7. I love the 2 minute rule. I am amazed at how much I can accomplish in 2 minutes! Lots of things that I used to put off until it was a large chore to get it all done. Now my mornings go much better since I do not see so much clutter.

  8. two for things that get left in places. one – have a laundry basket in an had her kids pick upopen hallway where things that need to go to another room can be put. two – have a paper sack or container that can go to Goodwill etc, keep that in the front closet and every time it’s fills it leaves. The very best one is the gal my daughter babysat for had her kids pick up for 15 minutes every night. The reward was a scoop of ice cream and if they had misbehaved after school they had to sit at the table without ice cream. Great way to learn to pick up and behave!

  9. For the past couple days I revisited decluttering. It was all part of late spring cleaning. To keep me on a “high” as I did the work (walking more than 4 miles inside a 950 square foot apartment each day), I took pictures as I went along. It was gratifying to send to a friend who knows I’m a tad bit nutty and hear her say, “Huzzah! Looking good.” I managed to get the entire apartment decluttered and cleaned. No more cobwebs behind furniture, no more dust on the baseboards, no more books piled on the floor, no more crusty stuff in the dishwasher, no more pillow feathers under the bed. Huzzah!

    To maintain? One small space at a time as suggested here. My way took a total of 22 hours with a touch of AFIB. But oh, my home is beautiful.

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