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  1. Thanks for the perfect advice on maintaining a neat and clean home. As you say, fifteen minutes can reset, bringing back a peaceful environment. Clutter and messes are like a weight on the emotions. Eventually you have to deal with things, and far better using your suggestions.
    Jan B.

  2. Not difficult to practice “reset” habits daily! Basic rule….always put back in its place whatever is taken out to be used….toss….when necessary…..scale down when needs or situations demand. Use the 15 minute rule to focus on a specific area, or task, start/finish/congratulation yourself…rest a bit…then tackle another specific area using the “spy glass method!” I found this really works….try it…may work for you!

  3. This is a good habit to teach your children, too. They can put their school things and coat in a designated place, so they can pick them up on their way out the door in the morning. They can put away their shoes and clothes also. They can tidy their toys, games, etc.
    They can help with the dishes, too. The rule at my house, once my kids were 10 or 11ish was “The cook never cleans.” And when they turned 13, they each got to fix dinner one night each week. They put what they would need on the grocery list, so I could make sure they had what they needed. (My daughter’s favorite thing to fix was pot pies, until she finally decided to be more adventurous.) When they cooked, of course, then I cleaned the kitchen, because “The cook never cleans.”

  4. Another recommendation is to involve your kids in this end-of-day ritual. Give each of your children a clothes basket or other container in which to place every item (toy, clothes, soda cans, candy wrappers, crayons, etc.) of theirs that is out of place. If you can encourage them to put them away in their proper places, you don’t have to and you’re helping them to take responsibility for their things and the living spaces you all share. It’s a good habit for all family members to adopt.

  5. Last one up always makes the bed. If one cooks, the other tidies the kitchen. We both work together to fold clean clothes and put our own away. Gifts of service are our love language so it’s easy for us to keep a tidy home.
    We live in a two-bedroom downsized senior condo so it’s important to keep it picked up, otherwise it quickly looks like a dump.
    One fun thing I did early December was to pull out holiday looks for all the upcoming fun events this month. It’s very pleasant to shop a small rack on my door. Everything is clean and fits and all my special party clothes get worn.

  6. I think all your advice is great. Every home and schedule have to be considered. And only those living there can figure that out. I work 8-4 Mon through Fri so for me I deep clean most every Saturday morning unless I have other obligations then I do it Sunday evening. And then every evening after work at least 1 load of laundry gets done. The load from the previous night gets folded. Supper made and cleaned up after. Then right before bed I take time to do a quick pick up and sorting, start the dishwasher then do my personal hygiene nighttime routine. My husband says he waits on me for an hour before I finally get into bed, but I don’t want the pressure of feeling overwhelmed day in and day out. So, I just tackle it as needed. Once or twice a year if I can, I’ll take off work for 3 or 4 days consecutively and also use the weekend to go through closets and organize, clean ceiling fans, wash windows, ya know, those things we don’t do every single week. I think those who struggle with it must build a tolerance until it is no longer something that bothers them. It really just comes down to a matter of just simply doing it. If you’re not sure where to begin make a list room by room of those things you want to cover and begin by tackling one room at a time, then maintain the finished rooms by keeping up daily with general pickup and one deep cleaning day a week. It will take time but can be done. Once you accomplish that, from there it WILL bother you if you let it get out of control again so that alone can keep you motivated. I love the feeling of calm when I’ve finished deep cleaning and can just sit and enjoy the finished product… even if it is brief… I just feel less stress when my environment is in order.

  7. “Touch it once”. When you pick something up, take care to not to move it somewhere else for later. “Touch it once.” Put it away the first time you touch it. It may seem like it takes more time, but how much time is added when you have to touch it again?

  8. Don’t put it down, put it away is a good rule!
    See to that everything has it’s place and put it back there at once and you’ll find it when you need it. So good for your peace of mind!

  9. I’ve had 5 consecutive days of unusual activity (most of it fun) and my apartment has suffered. Deep cleaning over the next few days so I can lounge after Thanksgiving with friends.

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