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  1. Sooo … the tricks to getting started on good habits is to make a habit of tracking your progress on habits …

    More seriously, my number 1 problem with getting started with a habit is an inner moan of, “But I don’t feeeeeel like it!”

    I find two techniques helpful. One is OEA, Opposite Emotion Action. It means very deliberately doing the opposite of what you feel. You would think this is the same as “I’m going to do it anyway,” but “I’m doing it anyway” leaves you feeling negative and forced about doing it. “I’m going to do this instead of skipping it,” is more positive and leaves you with a sense of accomplishment. You would think that such a small change wouldn’t make such a big deal, but it does.

    The other is clearing the way for a good habit by blocking bad habits that are getting in the way. I’m trying to decrease my use of electronics, and electronics interfere with good bedtime habits. I use in-app timers, modes like “sleep” and “do not disturb,” and a mindfulness app. 99% of my electronics simply aren’t available after 9:30 PM. Even the phone app can be set to limit who will be allowed through.

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