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    1. plants are good for the environment. I love plants in my house. I also enjoy a well manicured and landscaped yard. Trees and flowers make me happy and the fragrance is delightful inside and outside.

  1. All the items pictured here, I have succumbed to purchasing at one time or another. As the years have passed, many of them, I am now in the “simplicity” mode. The good thing is that libraries, thrift stores, Good Will, have been, and still to some degree are, the beneficiaries of my “impulse buying” and yet not always impulse buying, because did enjoy these purchases, used them, read them, etc. However, in today’s world, keeping oneself focused, peaceful, calm, and in good health, which “stress” can endanger, is really a priority in maintaining good health and relationships. Good reminder today. I appreciate that I have learned and am doing O.K.!!

    1. Iโ€™m with you, Betty. We have a couple consignment shops with local women being the owners. When I clean out my stuff I often will take it and ask if they will take it and sell it if I donโ€™t want the money, I just want it gone. They are always more than happy to take it.

  2. My impulse buys are balls of yarn. I do knit and/or crochet every day, but I can’t use up my supplies as quickly as I can buy them.

  3. I love September as many pretty journals and day planners hit the shelves. I recently realized I have a surplus of these items so I resolved to not even look at them for the rest of the year!

      1. I bought a candle mould and some wicks. Now I save my 1/2 burnt candles and when I have enough I make new candles.

    1. I have the same resolve!! Yet while I have mastered most of my other Decluttering tragedies that is not one of them.

    2. I have kept a journal since I was 15 yrs old. I am now 71.. ready to shred them all. don’t even want to look thru them .. a waste of time!

      1. I read mine and enjoyed memories Iโ€™d forgotten. But most of them I shredded after tearfully reading. No need for my children to read and be confused about what they thought growing up.

  4. Friends beware, if you inherit your parent’s home, rid what you don’t want first before moving your own stuff into your “new” home. Give your siblings whatever they want, do not become sentimental toward silly stuff. And before you do move those things in make certain you have minimized your things so that you will not start out cluttered but free!

  5. My impulse buys are skincare and make-up. I always end up with multiples which clutter my vanity. One of my goals this year is to use up what I have before buying more – but it seems to be one of my issues, together with buying books.

  6. I buy too much of everything. Too many tee shirts. Too many books. Too many travel souvenirs. Too many gadgets that *might* make my life better/easier. Too many online classes. Too many streaming subscriptions. Too much fabric and too many supplies to support my quilting hobby. Too much. I have been decluttering and giving tons of stuff away but I still acquire too much. sometimes I think I use shopping as self-soothing, despite it being counter-productive.

    1. I totally relate to this Emily! Online classes are such a weakness for me! I have so many that I purchased and havenโ€™t even started! My aspirations are so high, but I fail on the execution because Iโ€™m overwhelmed on where to even start.

    1. Hi Loraine, mine too! only one other caveat…. he gives me food, drink and clothes. I am sort of a Tom boy, so I am not much of a clothes person, and he knows it.

      I think a lot of my buying issues, are all related to the hunt. I love getting something inexpensive and quality merchandise. Even if I don’t need it.

      Love to read, I find myself at all kinds of book thrift stores. I have 2, 9 foot tall book shelves. They are full. I have all my books in a spread sheet, 549 …. obviously I know I have a problem. (at least my daughter tells me so) lol

      Thank you for the article. I know I am not alone at least.

  7. I can definitely relate with to many books. As a home education mom this is so hard for me. I have been decluttering books that we no longer use or won’t reuse in our home education. I have also been throwing away lots of old worksheets ect.. Doing this has been so freeing.

    1. I think for a lot of homeschool moms it’s hard to let go of books and curriculum, but if you look at it as passing it along to someone else who can use it, it can sting a little less ๐Ÿ™‚

  8. Amazon ! Itโ€™s too easy to buy from. And all the adds on Facebook donโ€™t help, so I delete them before looking unless itโ€™s something I have already decided I need.

  9. I stopped buying travel souvenirs. Whenever I’m away I buy one piece of clothing (which might be as simple as socks). My wardrobe is full but most of it reminds me of my travels so I love wearing the things I have. On the one occasion when I was travelling super-cheap-budget and had severe luggage weight restrictions (it was a world tour) I bought a pencil from each place I visited. Now I have one cup on my desk full of pencils with exotic names printed on them. Those are my wins, in regard to selective buying.

    1. Years ago I started to buy charms in the cities or states or countries I visited and created a charm bracelet. Nice souvenirs that don’t take up a lot of space. And I never buy souvenirs for others because I feel if they’re not there why would it be meaningful.

  10. My bad habit is buying too many grocery items I already have in the pantry. If it’s on sale, I will purchase it. My goal is to pause and think before I purchase something I may already have in my pantry. I want to get down to just what I need for one person. My husband and I raised a family of 5 and I still think I might run out of food supplies. I’m trying to empty my second freezer as it is full of items. This is an ongoing process. Thanks for everyone’s suggestions. They are all helpful for me.

    1. Yes I can also relate to this style of shopping! With food cost rising and always 2 freezers full just for 2 trying to only buy what we need. It has taken a long time to reduce the freez
      er!

  11. I tried to post to this reply page and when I went to post my comment, it said I had already posted my comment, which I hadn’t. Don’t know what I did wrong.

  12. This is great advice! Costume jewelry amd holiday decor are my kryptonite! I just today had to walk away from a 3 foot tall ghost figurine. I just have to keep in mind that I don’t want to slog it all to the attic! I am trying to simplify and I agree it is very freeing! Thanks for the wisdom!

  13. I only shop for my groceries and household stuff weekly and stopped general merchandise shopping to avoid spending on unnecessary stuff and cluttering my home. Not buying anymore Chinese herbs till my stocks in the fridge are all used up.

  14. I agree with all of these with some exceptions to #1 (home decor). I feel some knick knacks make a home feel cozy and lived in. I tried to really downsize in this department when we moved a while back but it felt like we were staged to sell our home. I will admit I have a throw pillow problem ๐Ÿ˜ฌ but luckily have room to store the out of season ones!

  15. Hello. I am testing out the 333 project and I realize I have way too many socks. I know theyโ€™re not part of the 33 however they take up two drawers of my dresser. I also have too many sheet sets.
    Thank you for all your ideas. You have been so helpful in my quest for less.
    Lisa

  16. Thanks Julianna for another excellent article. Having more than a person needs results in more work – and money wasted.

  17. I loved your article and love the pertinent comments, so great job. I will look for more of your posts. I bought my grandparents house, I can’t say no to family ‘Heirlooms,’ last month I got the old family crib & tho I kinda want to learn the piano, should I take my aunt’s piano from my cousin… ๐Ÿ˜

    1. That’s neat that you bought your grandparents house! Having a clear vision how you want your home to look, feel, and function can be helpful in practicing saying no to all the things other family members are attempting to gift you. Protect your yes’s so that your home doesn’t end up being filled with castoffs that you don’t want or need.

  18. I grew up and remained poor for a long time. Scarcity is a trigger. I gave up Good Will for Lent in 2020 after seeing how much money I was spending on Retail Therapy. Towards the end of Lent when I was about to give in, all our stores shut down for 2 weeks! Saved! Now I may visit every 5 weeks, fill my cart, then put it all back, leaving without anything.

  19. One of my downfalls are framed photos of family that were taken years ago when my nieces and nephews were young along with very old photos of ancestors at least 100 years old and long dead. Working on it but not easy!

  20. I was once told by a coworker to have less clutter and spend less money when she saw something she liked, she would say to herself โ€œI may admire, but do not need to acquireโ€œ.
    I love this wish I could follow it all the time

  21. One piece you forgot in this post is that when you start following some of these suggestions, you reduce the clutter in your home. That, in turn, lead to an increase in the clutter($) in your bank account. That’s a good thing.

  22. I’m doing pretty good, but I found my weakness through someone’s comment. .toss pillows. Also I don’t have the luxury of storage space. It is really any pillow that is no worn out.

  23. but maaan, you used a picture of the cutest collection of mugs I have possibly ever seen and now I want to know where to get them! Lol ๐Ÿ™‚

    In all seriousness, very helpful inspiring article.

  24. I’m guilty of every category you mentioned! Yikes! This was a good reminder for me. I’m also guilty of buying too many pens and cute notepads!!

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