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  1. A huge chunk of my life is unsettled. There are a lot of unknowns around my health. I’m trying to let go of fear. I’m starting small. Fear of the next anticipated thing. If I think broadly the task will be impossible. Fear of the process of dying. I am choosing not to look that far. Today I’m trying to tamp down fear of the findings of last week’s hospitalization. Letting go of fear means I’m free to do the next right thing. In this moment autumn = fear. I am flipping the switch.

      1. Thank you and yes. Heart surgery is scheduled for early December and while no one likes going under the knife, if successful it will make a huge difference in quality of life. So, nervous and looking forward. Fingers crossed.

    1. I hear you and understand what you say. This time last year I was hospitalised and was close to death. I am still beating the odds for the time being. I have learned that fear is a mindset that can hinder any joy in the here & now. Recovery from the fear can be as hard as recovering from unsettled health (what ever form that takes). Decluttering your mind can help enjoy what we have right now. Wishing you all the best in your journey.

  2. You have made me see a little at a time. No judgement especially from myself. And most of all enjoy each day and every moment.

  3. Anita,
    I could have written your post! God bless and keep us as we travel this road. Thank you for sharing! I can’t tell you how blessed your words made me feel not so alone.

    Thanks also to Julianna for sharing these remarkable and simple reminders to live each day as a (uncluttered!) gift🙏

    Janet

  4. I chose to give up social media in favor of spending more time with the people who are physically close to me. I’ve simplified my life and it feels really good.

  5. Hello everyone,
    I received this link from an incredible person with a huge heart. I find it hard to admit, but tackling things like this on your own takes a lot more effort than when someone helps you. Even if it’s just clearing out the kitchen cupboard. Products that are still edible should always be passed on!

  6. I just did another version of “someday”. I decorated in antiques for over 30 years; haunted antique malls & flea markets and found some marvelous bargains. now, after having helped friends clear out deceased parents clutter for a decade or so, I started the de-cluttering for myself. realising my aesthetics were changing to more minimalistic decor, I had a cabinet stocked with “someday” or “smaller house” decor I was attracted to. last week I “snapped” and decided I was not waiting for someday. the antiques went out! I am lucky to have a consignment nearby that does well for me. so off they went and my “someday” became today. the result was no accumulation in the cabinet, my walls especially are less “heavy” with the updated decor and the antiques can go on their journey to another home happy to have them. TODAY – not “someday”

  7. The only one I have anything against is the “solution” to #4 to “let go” of certain commitments.

    Bail on a promise or commitment you made? And harm your integrity?

    I say no. Instead, fulfill the commitments you’ve already made. If only for conscience’s sake. And then, during and from that point on, learn to say “No” to making commitments out of guilt, and such.

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