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  1. Wow, this is a great summary of Atomic Habits. I also have read this book, taken some notes here and there, and work to incorporate various things. You have a great compilation on this page. Some big points in that book that I like are: 1. optimize your environment – make it easy to do the habit you want, and hard to do what you don’t want. 2. Start small – if you want to read more, set out your book where you will see it, and the new habit is to read 1 page, or 2. You build the habit. 3. Your thoughts, words, and actions are establishing the “identity” you are striving for. “What would a healthy person eat?” “What would a fit person do here?”… and so on. 4. Habit stacking – take something you already do, and deliberately add a second habit you want to do. If you get up and make coffee, but want to drink more water, set your cup or water bottle next to the coffee maker.

    On a related but slightly different book, Jim Kwik in his “Limitless” book talks about how we need to watch out for LIE and ANTs that will derail us from growth and improvement.
    LIEs = limited ideas entertained
    ANTs = automatic negative thoughts

    What you speak to yourself, believe, and what other people speak to you can either build you up to greatness, or throw major roadblocks in your path. Look for the bright side of situations, if you fall down, get back up, believe you are going to be a little better each day.

    Also in James Clear’s book, he mentions the story of a chess prodigy and describes how who you hang out with has a massive influence on what you’ll become. If you hang out with people who make excuses, bad mouth themselves and others, never amount to anything, that is what you’ll be.

    Instead, if you associate with people who are upbeat, kind to themself but also hold themselves accountable when they mess up, who take action to improve their health, fitness, finances, learning, etc. you will embody these positive traits – and it will seem “normal” to do so.

    I am loving your website as I look for ways to make our home and life less cluttered, more peaceful, and fulfilling. Thank you.

    PS: I am also now reading Mel Robbins’ book, “The 5 second rule” and am enjoying it. Her podcast is also helpful and entertaining. OK, take a new step today towards your better self. 🙂

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