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  1. I love your idea to start with the easy stuff! And set a timer! And plan a reward! I heard something recently from another declutterer that I like, Cas the Clutterbug, to just commit to doing it for 5 mins. Just 5 mins. Just start. Chances are you’ll stick with it longer, but you’d be amazed (especially if you start with the easy stuff) how much you can accomplish in a short amount of time.

  2. I’m working through a big decluttering project. I think it’s an age and stage thing. Shredding old paperwork is so time consuming! I’ve shredded 3 bags so far, and more to go. Add to it the children’s possessions, 3 estates, so many defunct hobbies… it’s a serious challenge.
    On the flip side, there is a lot of true gratification with having people remark on your progress.
    We live rurally, and garbage disposal is limited. Donation spots are often full. I’m learning to be patient and creative, free cycle sites are frustrating with the no shows.
    But I’m winning over here! And that’s what counts.

  3. Very motivating. I love having my favorite music on as I work. It is so much more enjoyable. As I gather things to donate, I tell myself, “be generous.” I imagine someone else being so happy with the item.

    1. My daughter, a very organized teacher, helped me clean out our garage. We took 10 big boxes of old paperwork of the businesses we used to own to a mobile shredder. The money raised went to Treasures For Teachers so they could get school supplies.
      My son in law took care of tools my husband can’t use anymore. What relief to have a neat, clean garage and we did it together!

  4. During our midwest central “bomb-cyclone” this Christmas week, I have purged my clothes, books, socks, and linens. I freed up 2 large closet drawers and pared down my closet immensely! Can’t wait to tackle the sewing room and pictures that is a total nightmare! In addition I plan to get to the basement and rearrange that area during the next blizzard! Global whatever!! Bring it on!!! LOL

  5. One of the best tips I’ve learned is to get a large kitchen trash can, line it with a disposable baggie, and as you decide to toss that item or clothing out, put it in that container. When full, pull the liner out, tie it up, and it’s ready to go to Goodwill. Then line the trash can again, keep it close by to be ready to fill up again. I give my filled bags to my neighbor whose church donates to charities all over the world. Once the bag is gone out of my house, I have no regrets giving it away. I know it’s stuff that goes to a good cause.

  6. Thank you for the excellent advice and insight on de-cluttering.
    My tips are simple as you state: Start with one room and ask myself those questions.
    Do I really love this? (That is a great question I learned from you!) Then I ask: I once
    may have ‘loved; it but why is it not being used? That gets me closer to a decision.
    Excess stuff really does weigh a person down and has negative effects. My reward is
    walking into a room and having it free from clutter. I am then able to see the beauty.
    Kind of like the forest: can’t see the forest for the trees.” Clutter spells unrest.
    Thanks again!

  7. I don’t really have a problem decluttering. I go thought my stuff real often. but my husband doesn’t like to get rid of stuff cause when he got divorced from his first wife, she got rid of all of his stuff. so now he doesn’t like to get rid of hardly anything. especially when it comes to clothes. try telling him he knows I won’t get rid of anything unless I ask him. but still no go. any Ideas of how I can help him to get rid of stuff?

  8. This is my goal for 2024. I’ve already started. Instead of shoving clothes into a stuffed full drawer, I go get a garbage bag and empty the drawer and get rid of things that don’t fit, are missing their other part or stained or torn. Now I’m working on clothes in closets I haven’t touched in 5 years. It really feels awesome.

  9. I am more intentional about what I purchase, now. I know that I don’t want to inadvertently get back up to a cluttered home. When, I consider buying something, I really think hard about what I can get rid of

  10. I love all of these suggestions except enlisting help. It’s a very tender thing having someone assist in determining what you value and what you don’t. Having to justify to someone can make one (me) feel like she’s on trial. I say tread lightly in that area. Be intentional about who you allow to help you make personal and tough decisions about letting go.

    My first go round I asked a friend who I thought practical to assist with decluttering my closets. She knew my taste and had an inkling what was in my wardrobe. She definitely knew that my closets were more full than need be. Before planning a date, she decided what she was going to get rid of. Quickly I realized that she had in mind a sort of Stacy London and Clinton Kelly style purge and she was way too eager to get to it. I scrapped the whole idea, took my time, thinned the closets slowly until the only things inside are items I like wearing. I needed to do that on my own as I’m often rattled by the strong opinions of others. I begin to question the legitimacy of my own. I didn’t want to rid myself of things because someone said I should only to feel deep regret later.

    Clutter did trigger stress, anxiety, and feelings of overwhelm. It also made focusing nearly impossible, which became a major problem as I teleworked and was doing a poor job. I was so ensconced in and burdened by my mess that concentrating while surrounded by wayward clothes, shoes, books, bedding, and dust collecting debris in my work made performing successfully impossible. The only way out was to gain control of my home.

    I’ve decluttered a few times and now am pretty sure my home is exactly as I wish it to be. The men who repaired my water heater complimented me on my taste, which was a nice little boost at 8:30am. I wasn’t embarrassed by any mess because everything was where it was supposed to be. The ongoing tasks are to be intentional about what I bring in and declutter routinely so as not to find myself in a mess again. You’re blog posts are constant reminders.

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