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  1. I was a registered nurse in another life. It was THE most wonderful years of my working life. I have held onto my nursing books since 1983. Some are now obsolete. But I have moved with them to 3 countries and back home to Australia. I know I have to let them go. Buy why is it so hard?

    1. Julieanne as a fellow nurse, I appreciate your dilemma as I too struggled with the exact same thing. As nurses, especially older ones, we went into the profession because we truly had a calling to care for others and wanted to make a difference. Nurses and the act of nursing became who we were/are. For me, parting with those memories of that time in my life are difficult and felt as though I was giving away my identity. I can offer my thoughts..first as you said, the books are outdated. Second, your identity is not found in those books. It is found in your heart and memories of those patients you cared for. You know those extra special ones who really pulled at your heart strings (even those who made your shift unbearable). I started a “fluff” folder years ago because nursing can be brutal! When I need a “fluff” I pull out that folder and see old cards/mementos from patients who captured my heart as much as my act of love thru nursing captured theirs. Hope this helps!

    2. I totally sympathise! I have my textbooks from university – 1986 graduate! I too have to get rid of them. But it’s like losing part of my identity, though if I am honest with myself, I lost this long ago, in another life…

    3. How about repurposing into the base of a lamp? Saw this on Pinterest along w a side table of your favorite books. I am doing this for my daughter.

    4. Take a picture of yourself with them and write down the memories that are associated with them. Rip out some of the pages in the books and make a collage to use as background. Mount the photo and the memories on photo safe paper and then on top of the collage and frame it. A 12×12 frame is a nice size for this. Or a shadow box if you have trinkets to put with it.

      1. Great idea. Loved items are the objects that bring back memorable stories I dream of writing. Now at 85 and caretaker for my 90 year old husband I have no time to hold those objects to create stunning stories. Start younger. Just clearing obvious things for charity takes precious time I need for myself.

    5. I am the same way. My nursing book from 1984 only has a paragraph about AIDS bc it was just being discovered I guess. So many things have changed in the nursing world over the years, how we do things, sometimes I just like to revisit the old times by thumbing through one of my nursing books.

  2. I do keep a memory box and repurpose some things. But I have realized that keeping too many of something is like trying to plant a whole package of seeds in one window box… The flowers just take away from each other’s impact. I keep my favorites, and often give things a kiss as I toss them into the garbage or donation box.

  3. For those who have a collection of textbooks, how about propping them up around you as you stand in the photo. You could even put on your old uniform if you still have it. I think it would make a lovely photo.

  4. I am leaving the sentimental items for last. When I come across something it goes right into a box for a more thoughtful second look later. It keeps the process moving without any additional angst at that moment. It’s not an easy process though. I find it hard to let go of any family items from generations before me and feel grateful that I am in possession of such wonderful things. Hmmm, but if I really toss enough of the ‘other’ stuff, then there can be a special space for as many family memory boxes as I want.

  5. I’ve been doing this with my mothers childhood photos and also my own childhood photos that have been stored away in big bulky albums in the basement for way too long. I used a free app for scanning on my phone that puts the photos in a file on the computer, then uploaded them to an online photobook maker and made them into photobooks in under a week!
    They can now live on my bookshelf with my children’s photobooks so everyone can see and enjoy them. They had started to crumble and yellow in the old albums so this has given them a fresh lease on life.
    Still stuck on what to do with war medals and ribbons… I never knew my grandpa who they belonged to and have no real desire to keep them but feel that throwing them away is not really an option. I am the end of the family line, so can’t pass them to anyone else.

  6. Is there a war museum or museum in your grandfather’s old town you could donate a photo of him, his medals and ribbons to?

  7. For my grandmother’s wedding in 1915, she carried a white Battenberg lace hanky made for her by her Sunday School teacher. I also carried it in my wedding in 1963. In 1986, I had it framed. And, in 2016, I gave it to a cousin so he could give it to his daughter. But, before I gave it away, I took a photo. I use it for the background photo on the opening screen for my e-mail — and I see it every day!

  8. No family member is interested in my sentimental items, pics, or anything. it’s sad. I have enough marvelous t-shirts to sew a dozen quilts, am working on one at the moment. it’s hard to get rid of it but am making slow progress. thanks for the tips & empathy.

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