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  1. I think flowers and plants are a must have to create a welcoming, comfortable space. I also think that having a clean space is important to make guests feel comfortable. Also, laying out a bath towel with washcloth on their bed or in the guest bathroom ahead of time is a nice touch.

  2. We like the idea of soft pillows added to seating areas but if you have too many, people are reluctant to move them to make room to sit down. Just a thought for keeping this in balance.

  3. Also clear pathways to the front door. No bushes taking over the walkway or plants that stick out.
    Avoid stumble hazards – yard ornaments in the way, plants, tree roots, too many rugs, newspapers, and bulging plants that you need to walk around.
    Clean that front door and sweep down spider webs, dirt dobber nests, hornet nests* *caution: make sure they are empty or spray the nest to knock down tomorrow.
    Annually or as needed clean walk way, porch with pressure washer.

  4. Great article–thank you. Last time we had guests, both husband and wife commented:
    “Your home is so tidy and feels so clean.” One accent I use often is a room diffuser, with
    fresh light scents, such as citrus. This became a conversation piece and does top a room
    with a subtle but nice scent. Also created a theme, weaving warm colors into each and
    every room. The colors that make me happy are vibrant and make me feel good when I
    walk into a room. (Bedrooms have soft tones to create a calm feeling). We do make a
    habit of not allowing things to pile up, but find a place and put things where they belong.
    I vowed long ago to never say to an unexpected visitor or a guest: “Sorry about the mess.
    Let me clear a place so you can sit down.” That’s now how we want to live even if no
    one is coming to visit. Our home is our sanctuary–apart from the noisy world.

  5. This was very helpful. I suffer with OCD but right now my back is injured so I’m limited on what I can do. There some simple things you mentioned that I can accomplish as long as I take sit down when the pain gets bad. Ty for this helpful article! 💜

  6. It took 3 months to declutter and organize my apartment. Two weeks ago I did spring cleaning. This weekend I had an overnight guest who I had not seen since pre-pandemic. She slept in my study which acts as a guest room. I put effort into making the room attractive and comfortable, mostly because this is where I write. It was wonderful to offer it to my guest – drawings from a local artist, wall lined with books of authors she also loves, soft lighting, window treatments that give glance of the moon at midnight and sunlight in evening, music, a comfortable bed covered with the right amount of blankets for one allergic to the cold. Just the right pillow.

    My apartment is small. No dining room. One of the days my guest was here I was asked to babysit my 3 month old twin grands. Any opportunity to see the babies is an opportunity to say yes. My guest was delighted, needing a baby fix of her own since her grand is now 6 years old. Along came a mutual friend and my elder aunt, plus the twins and the living room was full.

    There being no clutter, everyone settled in, passing the babies around as we chatted for more than 4 hours. The babies interrupted dinner plans so we ordered gobs of Indian food for delivery and because all surfaces were decluttered, we set up a big communal food station on the oversized coffee table and ate to capacity.

    I was pleased. Everyone was comfortable. They obviously enjoyed my home, each other, the food. There was nothing to prep. It was fabulous hosting an impromptu dinner party in an uncluttered home that felt so much bigger than 950 square feet. And the fact that I could do it again next weekend if need be makes me happy. Decluttering and organizing are key to a welcoming home.

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