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  1. As a Gen Xer I totally bought into this mindset. I watched all the 80s movies on getting ahead (Working Girl, The Secret of My Success, 9 to 5) and worked for demanding companies where lots of overtime was expected to get the job done. When my kids graduated from college, I told them to give 100% while they were working their 8 or 9 hours, but don’t try to give 120%+ by working all kinds of crazy hours, on weekends and vacations. I know times have changed with the digital world but if you don’t set boundaries, no one else will. This can also be applied to parenting. We had to draw the line at travel soccer leagues, etc because my husband was commuting to Canada for his work which meant I was mostly a single parent running 3 kids to all of their activities. We decided each child can choose 2 activities – sports, clubs, band, concert, etc. It meant they sometimes they gave up stuff I would have preferred they stayed in, but everyone maintained their sanity. Thanks for reminding a new generation of readers about how important this is.

  2. I think it’s about time employees put their foot down and focussed on living a well balanced life. Due to mu pushing myself too hard over a career of 35 yrs, i now have medical issues that impact my quality of life. I think we should all be pumping the brakes. I no longer have an interest in making my top heavy company executives rich while I continue to get a pat on the back and a push to do more. It feels great. Gotta love the newer generation.

  3. Health problems put an end to the insanity of the endless workday for me. Now I telecommute full-time, choose to work 30 rather than 40 hours a week, take breaks throughout the day for neighborhood walks and afternoon coffee on the patio of the coffeeshop, or wander through the bookstore around the corner from my home. Life is short (I learned the hard way) and it is my duty to make each day civilized. If I don’t, my employer certainly will not.

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