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  1. The problem I have is that family aren’t on board. I’d love a more de cluttered space but others just don’t see it as a problem. 😕 I do insist on a space that is just mine but other than that others don’t help… even as much as bikes in the dining room!!!

    1. Hi I share your concern. With kids growing up still the chore helping hand is a myth in my house. It’s far energy efficient to go alone than badgering them and that is where I stand with CLUTTER.
      Clutter to Clean is a goal I shall get to!

    2. If it were me I would lay down some hard and fast rules and stick to them! I perceive you are the mother and this is your home and you are the one who pays the mortgage? I always told my children when growing up, “When You leave home you can do whatever you want but not in this house!” It may be tough love but it is your sanity! Do not be afraid to speak up. You are the adult here.

      1. I take photos of sentimental items and make them into slim little photo books on the Apple app. I can then move the items on to charity if other family members don’t want them. I started doing this after my daughter died and ended up with much of her stuff.

  2. Doors. I find doors helpful. I shove a much as possible in a room and shut the door. This had not been ideal long-term.
    Like others have mentioned, the main issue is getting everyone else in the house to do the same.

  3. What jumped out at me in Step 1 is throwing unneeded clutter away is not always such an easy thing. You can’t throw just anything into the trash can and believe it or not, many charitable organizations have gotten pretty picky about what they will or will not accept. Nor is it likely that you are really going to have that giant garage sale you’ve been dreaming about. Also, trips to the city dump with a truck bed full of old appliances, vacuumed cleaners, and old furniture adds up quickly. I have had a lot of success with renting a dumpster for a few weeks and filling it with every and anything that isn’t valuable, sentimental, or absolutely necessary.

  4. in my home anything flat is an area for my husband to pile up. frustrating. he does no like the containers I gave him to separate stuff into

  5. For every piece of clothing you buy, you must donate something you own and do not wear.

    I am a glutton for saving too many of my child’s items in bins that I store in my garage.

    However, I DO also purge every week, but I am the person who lets that basket full of donations sit in my foyer or hallway or in my car for another two weeks before I actually get the chance to drop the items off. I need to get better at this.

  6. Sometimes we set up roadblocks in our way to avoid decluttering. You have to take a hard look at yourself and ask if you are making excuses to not do the difficult work. For example, ” I might need this someday”, or “this is worth money”. I have had to get in a “let it go” frame of mind to really declutter and stop making excuses! Until you adopt that frame of mind, it’s hard to make progress.

  7. Buying one of those collapsible fabric bins has helped corral the clutter on the lower shelf of my coffee table. I use a separate small basket just for cat grooming brushes, and another for remote controls.

  8. One thing that has helped me reduce family created clutter is having a drawer for keys and wallets and other things we need as we head out. That stuff goes in there and isn’t laying around creating visual clutter. It doesn’t always happen perfectly but most of the time it does 🙂

  9. It helps me to not pretend that I will declutter everything in 5 minutes!!
    I took nearly three month to sort & mail decades worth of family photos left to me by my mother.
    I have 8 siblings. I sent each of them a package with permission to give away or toss anything that they did not want to keep. I was shocked at how grateful they were for lost memories.
    Then I went on vacation!! I came home to a mostly empty garage, rather than a nearly full one.
    I am now ready to tackle the remainder of junk in the garage. Then my closet. Then my office. I figure the whole process will take about a year. But imagine the luxury of what I will have at the end of that year. I will have space and time to get back to music: singing and continue my guitar lessons!!

  10. I have major cleaning of my things that I have kept over close to 50 years of keeping / most things that come in my home. Not sure if this is the right place to be? Stuff needs to go. My husband and I want to do some major work on our house. NEED HELP with being the NORMAL as a child. I am soooooo anxious could you guide through this?

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