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  1. No no no. If I have to move to somewhere much smaller I will have to give up things I value. Get rid of books, which I will read again. I could buy again, but that’s money I don’t need to spend yet. Pictures — I have oil paintings, prints, watercolours, most by artists I know. A much smaller place wouldn’t have the wall space. Furniture — I’d get rid of my antiques and get smaller, cheaper, lower quality stuff — probably as “efficient”, but not giving so much pleasure. And so on. I love my largish house as it is, and hope to stay till they carry me out feet first. And I can’t be the only person who feels like this.

  2. You should definitely keep the things which bring you pleasure. If you have the time and energy to maintain them, or the money to hire assistance, then hang on to it. This method is for those of us who have more than we can maintain and whose objects no longer bring joy, but stress us out.

  3. I am removing anything that doesn’t bring me joy……..anything that doesn’t make me feel good……if I can’t recall where I bought it ……gone……but I pass on the items I choose not to keep to friends and family that will cherish……and those who are in need……simple~

  4. I watched a show/documentary the minimalist. It was life changing for me. So refreshing to eliminate clothing large furniture items. I removed dozens of pictures from walls put the images on 2 digital frames. kept a few custom artwork. I am not extreme minimalist but very life changing. Removing STUFF from counter tops.

  5. When we moved to a larger home from the one we left, I didn’t feel compelled to make the decisions about getting rid of stuff until I unpacked. Then I could see that there was no need to use the lovely storage space in this home to keep things I didn’t really need or treasure. After four years, it’s time to reevaluate all that’s left or has been added. For example, as my grandchildren who live near us have grown, their interest in toys in their area have changed, and I’m ready to donate the Fisher-Price playhouse that they enjoyed four years ago. Board games that never get played can go. Crystal bowls and vases that no longer match our more informal lifestyle can go. Thanks for your weekly reminder that this is an effort to keep on making. It is freeing!

    1. we have moved all our lives, but the move I made 25 years ago was the most troublesome. I was moving into a flat much smaller than we had ever lived in. My kids wanted some furniture, so that came too. Over a year it went to their homes. Once I got settled it was ok until I had a stroke. that was when, after a 75% recovery, I decided to get rid of anything I couldn’t use. I’m still only halfway through! so I have asked them for help to go through the papers. I am doing the books myself, and so often I find myself rereading them first! I’ll try the moving house tactic on my clothes. A great idea.

  6. I am in the process and have used your method without even realizing it. I started trying to do it all, all day, and it did become too much. So I spend the afternoons going through one section at a time, boxing up what I want to keep and moving it to my storage unit. Everything else gets divided into piles: selling, donating and garbage. It’s a slow process, and I will probably have to speed up at some point, but for now it’s all I can handle and endure.

    Letting go is hard…

  7. The first I’d have to declutter is my husband. He is a trash hoarder that fortunately has his own room which he can barely walk through, loosing silverware constantly because he eats in there. I am so glad that when we retired to a smaller place I demanded a TV room for him, I would be in a nut house by now otherwise.

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