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  1. I really appreciate your article about Frugal Decluttering. And $20 IS a lot of money to many people! I think your article should be right beside any other article about decluttering. People need to be smart about what they get rid of and not just follow along blindly. I enjoy decluttering and can’t think of anything I have missed after it’s out of here!! And decluttering is an ongoing chore! Thanks again!

      1. One thing to remember is to carefully store extras in easily identifiable ways where they won’t get ruined. So all spare kitchen items can go in one box, with an inventory of contents. Same for clothing, which can be packed up by size and season. Too much of clutter is people holding onto things “just in case”, being unable to find them quickly and easily when needed, which results in either a mess as you hunt or buying another anyway.

      2. I agree with you. I’m not willing to get rid of things that I will probably have to replace in a few months. Paring down to 4 towels for the 2 of us who live here (a guideline some advocate) is not reasonable to me. I don’t wash towels until I have a washer full, and it holds 4-5. I do light ones and dark ones separately, so collect quite a few before washing. Besides, when family visits, we can have up to 7 in the house! Having only 4 towels would just not work. The same goes for the number of sheet sets. When Littles throw up in the bed in the middle of the night (sometimes more than once!), I want enough sheets to change the bed without having to wash immediately.
        And I only run the dishwasher when it is full, which is only every 3-4 days, so need enough dishes to last that long. I guess we each need to set our own guidelines about what works for us in how far to declutter. So really glad for this article!

      3. )l am a frugal declutter, and that is why your other articles on declutterring sometimes didn’t set well with me. I have found that my life changes so much and so often, that about time I get rid of something I need it after all. As you age and need more life assisting items s(wheel chairs) that your garage gets full with some off these items. You use them as needed, get better, but don’t dare get rid of them because when you need them you are in the position of not being able to shop. The same is true often of oversized clothes, shoes, blankets, etc. so I have to use balance of what I despose of, and how. I am still declutterring but mostly the excesses of my “country” decor from the 80s.

  2. This really speaks to me. Unfortunately, I was/am a fabric hoarder. I have successfully been a fashion seamstress since I was only 15 years old. I have been making pillow cases for the homeless shelter that I volunteer at. This has helped me to reduce my fabric stash. The $20. rule is difficult for me since I have retired. That doesn’t mean that I don’t get ruthless and donate
    frequently. We really do need open space to function properly.

    1. Thanks for your comment, Linda. That’s wonderful that you are using your skills to help and declutter too!. I recently started destashing my fabric (I used to sew baby blanket sets). I got realistic about how much I would use and downsized from 5 bins to 2. I may decide to go to just 1. It was hard thinking about what I’d spent on it, but I don’t sew as much anymore so I wanted someone to have it who could use it. And you are totally right on needing open space to function.

      1. I have a ridiculous amount of fabric, which I’ve recently been trying to declutter. I’ve brought some fabric and kits that I’ll never use to my quilt guild to share and given fabric and my serger (which I never used) to a friend whose church makes dresses and tote bags to send overseas. And my scraps I give to another friend whose church uses them to stuff beds for shelter animals. I still feel I haven’t made a dent in my stash.

    2. Fantastic article! I am in the midst of frugal decluttering, for I am one that need the cash. With a kid in college and another going soon, every penny counts! I have found our family struggle is clothing. By barter and trading, we have accumulated many pieces of clothing for t 4 of us, and I would keep the best pieces from my oldest for my youngest. This year I said no more! Our community has a clothing give away run by our school, and I have been downsizing our collection for a good cause. Feels so good to gain space, empty totes, and bless others at the same time!

    3. i love your work with the pillowcases. have you heard of the pillowcase DRESSES for little underprivileged girls?
      i think they are just very basic, simple dresses with straps. the idea is that if girls look like someone cares, they are less likely to be mistreated. i think it’s an African idea. great work💕

  3. Loved your article. Thank you. Simple is my goal. After years of being a collector of way too many passions. I appreciate being respectful of everyone’s choices and options of how, when and where! Do what’s best for you and yours!

    1. This is spot on!
      My significant other and I are moving to a Tiny home. When we met, we both liked and long desired this life style.
      Now we have the opportunity to make it happen!
      He is a minimalist and I… have tendencies in both directions.
      I never pay full price, love thrifting and always see the repourpose possibilities in everything.
      I love being frugal… and yes it definitely changes the decluttering process in my brain.
      The 20/20 in our future is very possible, but my frugal roots twist my reality.
      Thank you for this wonderful article !!!
      I am grateful for this prospective ♡
      It will help me to let go and be brave moving forward.

  4. Thank you so much for writing this. As someone who loves the idea of minimalism but really struggles to balance the reality of these concerns, it’s like a lightbulb went off! I always felt like a decluttering failure when trying to practically do these things, but now I realize that a lot of minimalism doesn’t really address those realities. And that it’s okay to not have to discard some of the systems that you know work for your situation. And even more valuable is how you talked about ways to do that with balance and practicality so that you don’t get stuck in the other extreme. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!

    1. I totally agree, Molly. Same here! I see that it is all about balance and blessing others is a great by-product of decluttering well 🙂

  5. Thank you! This sounds just like me. I am – slowly – de-stashing as I have realized for a couple of years now that I am more of a wannabe-craftsperson than a proper one. I came from a line of hardworking craftspeople (hobby and/or livelihood). History weighs on my shoulders. I am more a books person. At my age I am becoming aware that I no longer have enough time or, more importantly, interest. I am just trying to make more space around me. I feel better already but still have quite a way to go.

  6. Love this style of decluttering! This is for me and my life style. Not as aggressive but still getting it done. Glad to know I’m not the only one that feels this way. Thank you!

  7. Thank you for this post, I feel somewhat “validated”. As I’m starting to simplify my life, starting with decluttering my house, I’m looking for great blogs to inspire me, and so far I’ve been… well… not impressed. I guess those blogs were just not for me. But The Simplicity Habit might just become my new favourite blog.

    Keep up the good work and thanks again! ♥

    1. You might also enjoy A Slob Comes Clean by Dana K White. She has addressed a number of issues that have resonated with me. However, I also embrace this Frugal Decluttering. Like Julianna, I really can’t see getting rid of things that I will just have to buy again a little while later, like clothes that will fit me when I reach my goal weight (about 5-7 more pounds – planning to accomplish by end of year.)

  8. $20- can be a lot for some, but many times it’s not about the replacement value. It’s about the uniqueness of the item and the fact if you can really find another. I like to repurpose and restore old furniture/things and have created some great pieces that you’ll never find in a retail/box store. The quality and craftsmanship are so much better than some furniture today. One example: I acquired an antique make-up dresser (with beautiful details). My husband was not happy b/c it was all paint stained and water stained, etc. I refinished it. I took all the hardware off, sanded-scuffed it and used a neutral smokey blue-gray tone stone-textured spray paint that went well with the room decor. I use it as a TV stand – perfect for a 45″ flat screen! I use the drawers for the remote and Play Station, controls and game cassettes (yes, that’s right, another antique lol). My husband was impressed and so happy with the outcome. It looks great, it’s unique and one of a kind antique piece. I decluttered a small storage area as an offset! lol

    1. Congratulations on refinishing the dresser! I agree about some items being hard or impossible to replace, even small items that would seem to be readily available. I thought I had lost a bag of hair accessories and looked them up to reorder, only to find that they were no longer available. I was quite disappointed, but later found my originals. Big sigh of relief!

  9. This is truly who I am. As an artist I always struggle with decluttering as I can always find another use and repurpose for things. This is both a gift and a burden. I eventually become overwhelmed with all the “projects” or things to sell I have for that one day that never comes. I’m to busy. I know their value but now time and space is valuable to me now.

    Your blog made me have an “aha moment” I often take things from thrift stores home to resell as I find the “beauty in everything” but then I realized if you find the “beauty in everything” I’ll have everything at home – and it’s to much.

    Just because it’s beautiful and I can change repurpose or resell something does not mean I have to. More opportunities will come again.

    It’s hard, but now I pick up an item, put in in my cart….then eventually put it back.

    Even though I – know I can sell it or alter it and make it more… I don’t have to. I now try to leave it for someone else to find that maybe needs it more.

    I remind myself how happy and excited I have been in the past to find some treasure or items for cheap… Maybe they need that more. It’s little but it helps.

    This also helps me let go of items I know have value or cost as once you are thrifty it’s hard. Now I donate stuff and know I let someone else have that exciting storey of finding that incredible treasure.

    It’s little – but this has been huge in me letting valuable stuff go.

    Also when donating it helps me to align with a school or charity or “free stuff for daily needs” site helps me know it’s moving into others who need it more. As a frugal person it really helps to know it’s moving on to someone who will treasure it more.

  10. Thank you. This speaks volumes!
    I am in the UK and as someone who has been made redundant a couple of times, then had to take contract work to make do – with lean times in between – I have had to resort to selling stuff in the past to pay the mortgage. The mortgage protection company were vile and even though I was claiming unemployment and the terms were met because I couldn’t show exactly what I had done (this was in the days of paper booklets about 10 ys ago) they didn’t pay. So I got used to keeping stuff to sell for a rainy day. And buying from charity shops to sell on at times.
    I’ve been working now since Oct 2020 now nearly 2 and 3/4 years and though on a rolling 3 month at a time contract I should be made permanent soon. I worked for a year and a half in COVID-19 communications exclusively, absolutely no time /energy to sell.
    This has made it easier to get rid of some stuff, I have way more to go , and am always more likely to keep some stuff with perceived value, but less. I’m working on the stuff which isn’t vintage clothing.
    and I’ve taken some to a charity shop, a hospice for kids and just got a letter saying they have raised nearly £500 and can claim the tax back too – gift aid which is a quarter again. That was one car load – boot (trunk) plus some on the back seat. I had gift aid when they had a shop in my home town, but I realised there was a store in a reasonably affluent area where I go to wild swim. No way I would have got what they did for it and I am so happy to be helping really poorly kids and their families. Hospices get no funding here even though we have national health service.
    I’m really fortunate I now have the relative security, which makes it slightly easier to let things go.
    I don’t think I will ever have a minimalist mindset, but letting stuff go so other people can benefit from it and enjoy it is certainly something I can do. Stuff that went in that car load was stuff like kids novelty cake tins, used, kids around me enjoyed them, time for them to go for other kids to enjoy.

  11. My Sister in Law gas made dozens of pillowcase dresses for little girls in other Countries. Very cute!

  12. What a wonderful article!! Years ago, I moved from a big house into a small apartment and had to, in a matter of couple of weeks, donate, gift, sell, or throw away many of my belongings. It wasn’t easy, but it had to be done. Some of my stuff went into a storage unit so I was able to continue decluttering the unit and taking to my apartment what I needed. In the process, I always felt afraid to get rid of things I thought I might need in the future since I definitely can’t afford to replace them (I’m still “decluttering”). Your article helped me get rid of my stress and guilt of keeping a backup for some of my items and helped me realize that I’m not alone in this journey 😊 Thank you!

  13. Thank you so much for this article. It’s the first time I have felt understood! I have a huge whole house project facing me, including my late husband’s possessions, am feeling totally overwhelmed. Other articles on decluttering just made me feel it was all too much. This makes me feel like the job is doable. Can you point me to more information on how to frugally declutter ?

    1. I’m so glad that the post resonated with you, Diana. I would say that all of my posts on decluttering tend to keep frugality in mind as it’s tied to my personal philosophy as I’m both somehow who works to be frugal but also think decluttering and living more simply are important. If there is a specific topic you’re looking for let me know. Otherwise looking under the declutter your home category, you will find many posts :).

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