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  1. Although I’m not a minimalist I’ve been following all but one of the above things minimalists don’t buy at Christmas. I still use paper wrapping and paper Christmas cards because I’m trying to use up all that I’ve accumulated over the years. I have reused Christmas bags for many years now, and am pleased with all I’ve donated overall and used up. Thanks to your daily tips I question myself before I make most purchases. It’s a slow but steady process. Thank you for helping to steer me in a better direction.

    1. I’m working on becoming a minimalist but all of these suggestions are used by me all year long. Birthdays, anniversaries, any gift giving idea

  2. I have been wrapping gifts in cloth for a few years. I have seen it reused and even in a quilt made by a friend. No more paper!!

  3. Good morning, thank you for your interesting advice. I am still transitioning. Again using up the “STUFF” I have accumulated over the years.
    Thank you for your advice and ideas. I certainly enjoy your posts.
    Lea

    “MERRY CHRISTMAS “

  4. I am not a minimalist but am in the process of downsizing and therefore going to take the advice offered here. I am not buying any new decorations. I have a few good quality pieces that I will use and. then donate as these won’t be suitable for my small apartment.

  5. Goodness one has to hsve a little sparkle for the holidays. I agree we shouldn’t go nuts but do indulge yourself a little..

  6. Ummmm – what an utterly boring and depressing way to rejoice in any holiday cheer. The magic of Christmas and/or the holiday season is to be merry and bright. Our neighborhood had awards for the best house and best street holiday decorations. It was magical for the children! Live a little! We just took the Tacky Light Trolley tour for Richmond, VA on Friday. Even for adults, the brilliant colors, the mailboxes left out for Santa, the donation boxes for charities most of the houses display shows spirit, kindness, a world that is not self-centered (if it does not make me live my best life – whoever or whatever it is get rid of it – vomit 🤮). Listen to the laughter and feel the anticipation of the children, see the smiles on the faces of the adults even during a rough year. Till out the family traditions and bring connection and meaning to the next generation. Mostly, get the stick out of your arse and grab a warm spices cider – with lots of rum bc you folks need to lighten up. The people that do the very hard work of decorating for the delight of others deserve our adulation, not condemnation. I feel that at 61 yo, I have to teach the younger generations how to relax and play! My father lost his own at 10 yo and unfortunately married my beautiful but alcoholic/psychotic mother. Our holidays were hell. After I become a mother, I made every humidity or possible idea a day to celebrates. My father thanked me for the happiness and joy it brought to him. My 4 young adult children are carrying it on (and “borrowing” my stash) – but consider themselves “minimalists in other more moderate ways. Put some more rum in that cider – geez how drowl and boring could your life possibly be?!

    1. I’m not sure how you got all that out of this article. All I see was how much thought minimalist put into everything. Less harm to the environment by using nicer things like tea towels to wrap more thoughtful gifts. More intentional about what they use, what they give, and how they spend their time. All the junk around the holidays isn’t more fun, it’s messy, chaotic, often meaningless, and very wasteful. A lot of people spend their money and time to “fill” everything and they don’t even sit down and connect with their own kids or family members. Quality over quantity can be applied to everything in your lives.

      1. Thank you for saying this! That commenter went rogue for sure. I consider myself a minimalist and its not that deep lol. We have very fun filled holidays with lots of memories, and no regrets about throwing tons into the landfills. Obviously its a trigger for some people. To each his own.

    2. I agree!! Gift giving is magical , selfless. It shows love and is fun! We give gifts bc the wise men gave them to Jesus and He gave his gift of salvation to us! Rejoice and have fun!!

    3. While I believe in the magic of Christmas and decorations, everyone doesn’t feel the need to buy seldom used items, not to be a downer, but what makes us happy as well. I hope everyone has a joyous Christmas 🎄.

    4. I don’t get that vibe at all from this lovely blog post. One can be minimalist and still be thoughtful, fun, and giving without being trashy and wasteful. Our grandkids enjoy a few great presents versus a bunch of cheap tacky plastic crap with flashing lights. We all enjoy good food and drinks at the holiday season. I am sorry for your “hell” childhood Christmases but there’s no need to insult minimalists on a **minimalist** blog!

  7. Although this was full of good advice, it came across as stern and boring. Christmas is special and should be exciting. How about advocating the use of abundant natural foliage, candles and recyclable paper chains to cheer us all up during Christmas.

  8. I am not a minimalist, but I am recently retired and trying to declutter and reduce to less. I am more like marla at this point. I am using what I have and trying to buy less unimportant things. I appreciate your help. Thank you.

  9. Instead of paper gift wrapping, after Christmas I head to my local fabric store and fill up with discounted Christmas themed cotton. I sew this fabric into different size gift bags. We have used and reused and reused these bags for many years, passing them back and forth in the family. No waste and a quick solution if wrapping is your least favorite chore.

  10. I’m a practicing minimalist and I don’t buy gifts for everyone. This is my first year of having a grandbaby and I told my daughter to open an account and I will put money in it. This is what we did for our kids and they were happy to get the accounts once they were adults.

    1. Make sure she knows that if it is an education savings account it can only be used for that. I am a recently retired HS college planning counselor. Not private, but at an actual public school. Better to set up actual savings plan so the $$ can be used for anything. Put in parent name until child is over 18…or even 21. I’ve seen people lose money on those ed accounts.

  11. I’m a minimalist, I agree with everything that was said.
    Very stressful time of year…..
    Unnecessary stress..
    Some people love it and I think that is brilliant. Just not for me.
    Simple, easy going , less exhausted & less expense….I like those words…

  12. although some helpful info mixed in……this a prescription on HOW TO BE A. KILLJOY too…..if someone wants to do some of the things you advise against…because it brings then JOY….then perfectly FINE❣

  13. this is a great list. the only addition I would make is the option of borrowing items. you meantioned lots of items that would only be used once per year. Instead of “making do” or “doing without”, why not borrow that blender or crock pot?

  14. I don’t decorate my house anymore nor do I put up a tree because I no longer host guests at home. I’m a retired and a widow.
    I gave the fake tree, boxes of decor, stockings to my offspring. Now THEY trim the tree, decorate, etc. All I have to do is show up, open presents, visit then go home. Life is super simple.

    Now as I age, I’ve spent the last 5 years, sorting through my house and giving away items I no longer use. I had 2 or 3 copies of everything. I have given away dressers and beds to former homeless people who FINALLY got into an apartment. extra linens, night stand, lamp, pots and pans (I no longer cook for a family) even books dishes and flatware, vases (usually with flowers in them to welcome to a rew apartment) and so on.

    I spent a life time collecting so much STUFF. It serves no purpose to keep it. If I end up in a nursing home or dead, I don’t want my kids to have to drop what they’re doing to clear out my house. I do have one bedroom completely empty now. It’s time to rip out the 30 year old carpeting in there to install new flooring.
    I am a minimalist now. I only own 5 pairs of pants and 5 shirts. I’ve donated out clothes I no longer wear. I recycle nearly 100% of what leaves my house. Happy downsizing all.

  15. I keep all Christmas decorations to fit in ONE Rubbermaid tote. if something new comes in, something old must leave.

  16. I try to make all holidays as stress free as possible. Overdoing any holiday can result in tired grumpy people. Years ago I encouraged my son to give me the gift of his time for holidays. He has purchased tickets for concerts, mystery nights, sip and paints etc. I get him gift certificates to his favorite restaurants so he can take his wife on dates and I babysit when they use the gift certificate.

  17. I believe in giving to others what is needed. I watch our local news every day so that I can be aware of anything that has happened to someone that has caused them to be in need. I pay attention to which organization is helping and I start going through my house. I gave my daughter’s bedroom furniture to a family in need. She had out grown it. My daughter ( when she was little) would take all of her toys that she didn’t want to Santa in our Mall because he would go to places where the children otherwise wouldn’t get anything for Christmas. I am frequently donating clothes and toiletries. I am going to be donating more clothes, toiletries and dishes soon.

  18. I am a minimalist. My sister has at least 25 bins for Christmas. She has 2 trees. The first tree is a white tree decorated with flamingos for Florida. The second tree has over 500 lights, Waterford crystal ornaments and incredible decorations . It’s just breathtaking. She also decorates for every holiday including Armistice Day. I became a minimalist because all my personal belongings were stolen in a move from one town to another so I had to start over. I have found that being a minimalist free’s me from so much stuff I thought I needed. Now, I only have what I need. I enjoy all the holidays when I go to my sister’s house.

  19. Personally, as a person who always loved the holidays; loved to go all out with the decorations (lovingly collected over the course of a lifetime); do a little extra for others; make the kiddos especially happy because I could, this article let me know that I could do with less. Two years ago, I became disabled at Christmas, lost my job, lost my income, may lose my house and car still. Most importantly, my children and I have been able to keep each other close. Their father provides no support. This year, I can’t afford gifts and Santa is poor. My children would rather have a holiday season of memories and traditions than things. They refuse to provide lists. This article reminds me that stuff doesn’t matter, experiences do. My ex took half the Christmas stuff and the other half doesn’t work well. We’re making it work for us.

  20. I am not a minimalist but, I do love to decorate my home for every holiday. I hate it when people don’t decorate for any holiday. The tree just won’t cut it. I love my dining rroom and living room and my windows and door wreaths. I never reuse paper or bags as it creates clutter and I only mail Christmas cards to immediate family, my budget is under 500 and I have never been into trends.

  21. Although I myself like to decorate lots I do agree with avoiding like pillows and bulkier stuff but enjoy lights, tree, garland, village and a few other things cuz it makes this time of year special… However I do really like the gift ideas on here at least for adults…food items like specialty coffee etc. or giving concert tickets is great and will not go to waste or just sit in the closet unused.

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