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  1. Today I read a Substack post about the joys of thrifting, particularly the high the writer gets from shopping in Goodwill bins. It amazes me that thrifting has become a grown up’s pleasurable past-time, something to do every Saturday afternoon similar to how we looked forward to movie matinees as teens. I posted this in response to the post on the high of thrifting.

    “I still haven’t figured out how to tell friends that I don’t want the items they unearthed from the back of their closet. I was given one such item today, a gigantic jewelry box. Why? Because last week this dear friend made me 5 pair of earrings. When I said I have a travel jewelry bag for earrings she decided I must have her ex-mother-in-law’s jewelry box given to her nearly 40 years prior that lived in the back of her closet because she didn’t want it. I end up putting a LOT outside for neighbors to grab including the jewelry box which went out my door five minutes after my friend left my apartment. After seriously decluttering and being devoted to keep clutter at bay, the last thing I need is an empty jewelry box taking up 30% of the real estate on my small bedroom dresser. No thrifting for me. Not digging through bins of junk seeking bargains for the sake of finding bargains.”

  2. The easiest way to declutter is to have to pack everything your family owns in preparation to move 1000 miles.

    1. I’m packing up a 2400 sq ft house to move to 1006 sq ft senior apartment . It’s challenging and exhausting but I know when we are done, both my husband and I will be happier with the decision we made to reduce our lifestyle. Very eager to get to our decluttered end state.

  3. I like the 5 steps. I have been trying to declutter for months and every time I feel like have made three steps in front, I take five steps back by buying and keeping another bunch of useless things. Honestly having kids doesn’t help. Half the things I feel like I could toss out, I keep because I know the kids can play with them, not their actual real toys.
    The consolation I have is that it is a journey. I’ll keep trying until I get it right.

  4. as per sentimental items, if you are loath to donate or otherwise divest yourself of them, perhaps take a photo and keep a memory book to look back at them. a photo book is likely much smaller than the items you might keep.

  5. I have just started trying to work my way through a house that was almost 3 households in 1. Let me explain that to start. My oldest son passed and I moved into his house and it was completely furnished(hardest thing i ever had to do in my life), then I had my own furniture, and my old roommate gladly had more furniture delivered as he was redoing his house. So needless to say my daughter & I was completely overwhelmed. We were making the best decisions we could on what matched and what didnt with the biggest pieces of furniture first. We have found this process here and have just started going through boxes. As we go through stuff we dont leave it at the house we take it within a day or 2 and get rid of it. If its throwing it out. We are taking the trash out a couple times a week so there’s no take backs! If its something someone else in the family can use, then we will text or call them. We still have a long way to go, but at least we are clearing a path. Thank you for sharing

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