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  1. I’m losing my mind. From my illness’, taking care of a dieing friend, major depression I can’t get it together. After being so organized and a pretty house, it is now a hoarders hell. I have to sell my house now because of wind and flood insurance cost. I won’t let people in. have 3000sq ft of some good and some not. I’m buying an RV to live in so I can afford to live. I’m 68 and want to live my life, not be trapped by it.. thank you for the advice.. Lynn Bender Irving Dauphin Island Alabama

    1. Please be sure before you move to an RV. We did for a couple of years and it’s expensive paying for the lot. We did find cheaper place in Georgia which helped. We thought we’d spend 10 years in the RV but our bodies aged quicker than expected. We are in senior apartment now. Easier to manage.

    2. Best wishes to you Lynn. I believe I understand somewhat because I lost my best friend a year ago and my house has become hoarder-ish. I’m just now realizing this and trying to do something about it, however slowly. I do have a neighbor who planned and succeeded in traveling and living in her camper van. She loves it. She has traveled many places around the country and learned how to make living more affordable. I send my best wishes to you with love and energy.

  2. So, in a word…Clothes. Trigger warning, this is mainly a female thing, although as a guy I have a burgeoning nest of Gloves and Scarves now that appear to be mating.

    1. Really it could be too much of anything, not just clothes (although that is likely the most common one). And I don’t think it’s just women as the men in my family have a harder time letting go of clothes than the women do so it varies. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

    2. I declutter my clothes extremely regularly, whereas my husband’s closet is so crammed with stuff that I went on strike and refuse to hang anything up, because when he takes out one shirt and five more fall out, he yells at ME. I told him I would leave his stuff in the laundry room until he made room in his closet to hang clothes up easily. This was, I AM NOT JOKING, at least 6 years ago. It’s easier for him to schlep his stuff up from downstairs than to downsize his wardroble.

  3. I have way too many clothes in my closet, and too many shoes. I need to go through it all and be honest about what I actually wear so that I can donate the rest of it. It’s not easy, and I’m definitely guilty of holding onto things because “someday”. I’ve also gained a lot of weight the past couple years, so I’m holding onto things that used to fit knowing that they will fit again as I’m losing the weight. But honestly, I want to build a capsule wardrobe instead of lots of “fast fashion”, so if I get rid of the clothes that don’t fit now, I’ll be forced to purchase new clothes to build the capsule wardrobe as I lose the weight. Really it’s a win-win.

    1. Hi Nicole. Another option is to save your favorite pieces and store them to review later should they fit again. If not, let them go. Shopping secondhand can be a great way to get quality pieces at a lower price too. Best wishes on decluttering your closet!

  4. I read the article and then decluttered 2 dresses and 1 pair of sandals that hurt my toes. By Sunday, I’m hoping to have made real progress in my closet!

  5. I always enjoy your ideas and tips.
    I do think its a better idea to give what one doesn’t want or use anymore to a Thrift store like Salvation Army, Goodwill etc. Someone’s cast offs are someone elses’ treasure, especially in these expensive days of inflation and high cost of living.

  6. My closet is just too small! We moved from a bigger house into a smaller house. I have cleared content in my closet twice–pounds and pounds of unused “stuff.” The closet is only three feet wide and barely holds the clothes I do wear. I’m planning another purge. But I am really struggling. No walk- in; not enough room for hangers.. My shoe rack takes up 2/3 of the floor space.

    Help! Any ideas?

    1. -box up out of season clothes
      – use other closets in the home
      – fold more and put in dresser instead of hanging
      but in the end, you only have the space you have. You might need to own less.

  7. To: Lynn Bender Irving Dauphin Island Alabama.

    My close friend just went through the same issues. She hired an estate-sale person who purged the house and set up a very well displayed estate sale. They made $18,000 dollars before costs. The house is now ready to sell. It took months, but was well worth the effort and the cost. Sometimes we need a little help.

    Maybe you’ll earn enough for a down payment on that motor home you want.

  8. Love this post! Those dry cleaning bags are my nemesis – my ADHD brain is like “but what if I need them?” 😅 Meanwhile they’re taking up half my closet!
    Here’s a weird tip I discovered – hanging all my clothes backwards at the start of the season. Then I only turn them the right way after wearing them. After 3 months, those still backwards? Haven’t touched ’em, probably don’t need ’em! Less guilt about donating when you have actual proof you’re not using stuff.
    Anyone else try this trick? Curious if it works for other people too! 🤔
    (That #9 about “dumping grounds” hit close to home btw… my poor closet shelf has become a museum of random stuff 😆)

  9. I have been decluttering for a long time and made some good progress in the rooms I use every day. This year I got my bedroom, closets, and dressers the way I want to use them.

    I, too, had many plastic bags from dry-cleaning, mail-order purchases, bedding purchases, etc. I reuse them for storing fans for the winter and holiday decorations to keep them from getting dusty. The bags I am saving I fold and keep in a small square laundry basket. I have used those bags for many things over the years.

    Now I am working on pictures that never got into albums. Very time consuming. Also, furniture I don’t need any more. Very interesting. I am enjoying the more “white” spaces in my home.

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