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  1. I decided before reading this article that I was not putting out everything as I usually do. I’m trying to keep it to a few simple vignettes. I like tradition I love Christmas but as I age it gets a little harder each year.

    1. hi,
      soo true:))
      I am attempting same:) so can enjoy more:))
      and just some extra decluttering and cleaning today had my back bothering me!
      Merry Christmas!
      & thanks for great article!!

  2. For the first time ever, I left the holiday decor up in the attic and only decorated minimally! I also used mostly natural items – pinecones, poinesstas, candles. My plan is to knit some snowmen and other seasonal objects throughout the winter for added touches. So far I am enjoying the simplicity but it is different from what I am used to.

  3. When decluttering last spring, I got rid of my holiday decor. I live alone. I visit friends throughout the season. While I receive tremendous joy taking in the beauty of my friends’ homes, holiday trimmings were not worth storing in my 950 sq ft apartment throughout the year. They were taking up real estate without bringing any real seasonal joy. I had all the stuff because everyone else had all the stuff and the Christmas god said I was supposed to have it, too. But did I really? The answer was no.

    I am not a minimalist. I do shoot for simplicity and practicality, however. Last April and May when decluttering and deep cleaning, I unloaded hundreds of pounds of home decor, kitchen items, linens, books, art, and furniture. Once those things were cleared away, I imagined the home I wanted to enjoy in retirement. Slowly and intentionally I chose the furniture, decor, plants, art, linens, and containers that reflect my aesthetic style, are comfortable and welcoming, sturdy enough to last, and easy to maintain. There was no room for the wooden nutcracker, stuffed Santa head and the rest that cluttered surfaces for 5 days in December and then cluttered cabinets for 360 days. That space could be better utilized, so out went the remnants of Christmas “stuff.”

    It’s Christmas season now. For the first time in over 20 years I will spend the holiday in my home alone. I’m good with that. Today I bought the ingredients necessary to make my late father’s (he was a chef) favorite decadent dish (not telling my cardiologist because it’s an artery clogger), read the last book I will read in 2025, watch the 1996 rendition of “The Preacher’s Wife,” FaceTime with my twin godsons, two weeks shy of their daredevil 2s, and maybe at dusk, walk around my beautiful neighborhood enjoying my neighbors’ holiday decorations. For me, this year, that’s the perfect holiday.

  4. happy holidays everyone, this year I decided to go with nature. I bought some holidays branches at wholefoods and put out a my favorites Santa 🎅 and hung some lights in my window. very simple and elegant if you can imagine it. I will go to dinner at my daughter’s home on the 24th and on the 25th I will enjoy a peaceful day with myself at home. I wish everyone a healthy and happy 2026

  5. I have been trying to do this approach for years. I’m on board but my family isn’t. The overwhelmingness of it is what they expect, along with something new added each year. For the past several years I have been slowly working on dialing it back and every year they scuff some about it. This year I have been working for the past couple of months clearing out my grandparents house and multiple sheds as one has passed and the other is now in addition living. This year I just didn’t have the brain bandwidth or time to do all the Christmas stuff. I told everyone I was not doing presents this year. I would do stocking stuff, (which is small and typically consumable taking less space ). I also was going going to decorate only one spot in the house (as the article recommended) which I did the front window area in the living room where the tree is. The only reason I didn’t get scuffing is because they saw I had a huge task I was undertaking. The real point is that I want to simplify how much I am excepted to take on no matter if I had the clean-out on my plate . I guess I’m just venting about here. I completely agree with everything in this article, it’s just when you have others involved that have their expectations and things they like in the season it still will put it all on someone to carry out, and they aren’t going to do it because that’s part of the enjoyment for them to have it magically happen.

    1. IMO nothing makes people scale back on holiday expectations (such as having an elaborate huge Thanksgiving meal or decorating a home from floor to rafter) like having to do the actual work themselves. They need to understand that of course it does not “magically happen.” Tell your spouse/partner/kids/grandkids/whoever next year that you are passing the Christmas decorating torch to them. If it’s your kids, it will make them better people by not expecting things from others that they are unwilling to do themselves. Best of luck & Merry Christmas! (And yes, I need to take my own advice because I still do a few things for my husband at the holidays that I’d prefer not to, but I am getting better.)

  6. All great ideas, but harder when you live with others. We’re mostly minimalists but my husband gets grumpy if we don’t do certain holiday traditions that I personally would be happy to forego. In the interest of remaining happily married, I go along for the most part, but I have cut back on things this year. He came from a large family with young parents, while I came from a small one with older parents, so I know that colors our expectations regarding holiday activity, noise, and so on. I firmly believe in the W. Somerset Maugham quote, “Tradition is a guide and not a jailer.” I hate feeling like I HAVE to do something just because it’s tradition.

    I’d be content on Christmas Day with a walk in the snow, good food, a good book, and a jug of Moose Milk (the Canadian military answer to eggnog, although we leave out the eggs and add ice cream). Happy Holidays, everyone!

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