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  1. the sunday butterfly cleaning seems good i like that idea. as i have the ADHD issues. So i am going to give it a good try i think this could work for me. will let you know. from jennifer D. thanks

  2. yes i think the butterfly cleaning/ decluttering way could be a good way for me i like that idea sounds good to me from jennifer D thanks

  3. This quote immediately turned me off as sexiest: “Many women juggle numerous responsibilities every day. Between working, running errands, or taking care of their families, not everyone has the time to spare to clean and organize a room that’ll get messy again after a few hours. The Sunday Butterfly approach allows them to switch rapidly between tasks.”

    Why frame decluttering tasks as a woman’s task? Perhaps having the spouse/partner help is a strategy to suggest, too.

    1. Go find some joy somewhere. I promise it will feel so much better not to read into every little thing and let it bother you. Not everything is sexist 😉

    2. I interpret it as many women experience this, which likely has been the author’s experience (and mine as well). I didn’t take that as a suggestion that men shouldn’t have any responsibility for taking care of the home as well. What about that statement did you find to be untrue?

    3. I admit that I bristled a bit immediately too! When we were younger and I was getting ratty over endless tidying and cleaning, my husband would say – ‘But I help you’. That always got to me! I pointed out that I was actually working longer hours than he and the house wasn’t ‘my’ job. It was ‘our’ home. We learned to just do whatever we saw needed to be done. I still do most of the housework, but he does the laundry. We wash up together, apart from the weekend use of dishwasher which is his territory. He does nearly all the shopping and more than half the food prep. I do most of the outside work. It’s just instinctive for us now to see something that needs to be done, and do it. And we ‘help’ each other. So we are both probably ‘butterflies’ in our approach by now!

  4. Sunday is definitely NOT a cleaning day for me. Evidently, you are not a church person. Sunday for me is
    reserved for church in the morning, nice lunch/dinner in the afternoon. Clean up and rest the rest of the day.
    Usually Friday or Saturday is my cleaning day, with changing beds, etc.

    1. A couple of things to note. This is a guest post, but she didn’t create the concept and makes a point of saying that the creator said she does this on Sundays, but that the day is flexible according to your schedule and needs 🙂

  5. I agree with the comments about sexism. I can still remember my ex-mother-in-law asking my ex-husband why I didn’t do his laundry. I handed him the manual for the washer and dryer.

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